"It's not worth crying over a guy".
If you're a guy then they'll say:
"It's not worth crying over a girl" (or "suck it up faggot". Depends on what kind of friends you have)
In other words, it's not worth crying over anyone then? So what are all these tears for then?
So my question is, who the fuck should we cry for?
Losing 100 hours worth of save file in Skyrim
Pictured: Not me
It's just that if nobody can make you shed a tear no matter how much they hurt you, you obviously don't have anyone that you care about enough.
For example if let's say your best friend in your whole wide world decided to leave you. If you don't feel sad enough to shed even one tiny teensy bit of tear then something is wrong with you. Sure, maybe some people are emotionally stronger or resilient but no one is truly unbreakable.
Somehow, somewhere in our heart there's a weak spot where a hard enough blow can crumble every single bit of emotional defenses you've walled up around your unbreakable heart.
Also in that same spot is reserved for those important enough to you to reach your most vulnerable side. And those are the people you have to cherish. Those are the people that make you feel like you're on cloud 9 and at the same time if something bad happened related to them that particular cloud 9 will dump you back to the ground and rain depression on you.
Screw you and your happy thoughts
Really not sure the point of this post here but I guess I can conclude that we all have a soft spot for someone. More than often you don't realise it until it's too late.